This essay originally comes from Ye Haiyan’s blog; the director and founder of the Grassroots Rights Center. She’s apparently very well known online as an advocate of women’s rights, particularly as they relate to sex workers. I’ve been trying to provide various types of support for their efforts, my own interest stemming from her incredible story, and a broader interest in gender dynamics as they relate to planned birth policies resulting in nationwide gender imbalances.
I have extremely conflicted feelings about legalization of prostitution in any context and don’t know what the answer is. Legal or not, much of the Center’s work centers around removing social stigmas that are attached to sex work, such that those involved can seek medical and legal help. Translation mine, original Chinese below:
Sex Workers or Brothelgoers: which are more contemptible?
Ye HaiyanThe strongest part of human nature requires that there be ’sex workers’ and ‘brothelgoers.’ For life to go on, it requires passion. If one day men and women remove all sexual desire, men no longer lust after women, women will look upon men and be completely disgusted, it’s very possible that the value of life will slowly degenerate into nothing.
In order to give humans the highest probability of spreading, the Creator made it that men would spare no effort in sowing their seed. Only through sexual exploits will life flourish.
Pregnancy is an extremely fortunate event; the providence of miracles. Life cannot entrust its hopes to a single male and a single female. Therefore, life makes every man and every women pursue sex with numerous partners, as a way to assure the best chance of reproduction, the only way that life can flourish.
If humans were like animals, and only sought the perfect love, perfect chastity, it wouldn’t be long before disaster. Furthermore, the reason that humanity is so widespread and vigorous is due to human’s sex drive as being equally as vigorous.
In order to satisfy sexual urges, men will often become brothel patrons, an instance of moral corruption. Life essence swells within, and must be released to spread more life. Men and women both have a duty to support the continuation of new life, and originally this was a pure and beautiful thing; however, human civilization has caused people to become greedy and selfish, and turn sex into an immoral and illegal act, which causes this original, beautiful thing to become filthy, repulsive. These serve as moral shackles, restraining the most basic instincts, the most fundamental source of life.
Sex workers are a disadvantaged group simply trying to find a means to provide themselves with sustenance. If someone is so poor that they don’t even have the means to live, in order to continue living, she is capable of doing anything. Just as people once began using money to make exchanges, she will use the sole valuable skill she has to earn a living. Prostitution is just a means to live. No matter if someone is a brothel patron or a sex worker, their actions are all for the sake of living, or satisfying life’s needs.
Also, this is in line with respecting the status of life. Just as the Buddha said, “All living creatures are equal.” The life of an ant, and the life of a human are the same in terms of nobility, all go through the miraculous fission of cells to be born. Therefore, all animate things go through the same process. We should treasure and revere them; we should not belittle them; even more importantly, we should not harm them.